Ek Choti Si Haar Jo Zindagi Ka Sabse Bada Sabak Ban Gayi – Heartfelt Story of Turning Failure into Strength

 

🥀 Ek Choti Si Haar – Aur Zindagi Ka Sabse Bada Sabak

“Kabhi-kabhi zindagi humein sabse zaroori sabak kisi jeet se nahi, ek choti si haar se sikhaati hai.”

Zindagi mein hum sab kuch jeetne ke liye bhaag rahe hote hain — kabhi ek trophy, kabhi ek job, kabhi kisi ka pyaar, aur kabhi apno ka bharosa. Har subah ek nayi daud hoti hai, jiska anjaam ya to claps hote hain ya khamoshi.

Mere saath bhi kuch aisa hi hua tha – ek chhoti si daud thi, chhota sa platform, par usme meri poori jaan lagi thi. Aur phir… main haar gaya.

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🎭 Woh Ek Din Jo Aaj Tak Yaad Hai

College ka annual fest tha. Ek creative writing competition. Pehli baar kisi ne mujhe kaha tha, “Tu likhta acha hai, naam de de form mein.”
Main kuch khas umeed lekar nahi gaya tha. Bas socha, dil ki baat kagaz pe utar di, ab jo hoga dekhenge.

Jab result aaya, mera naam list mein nahi tha.
Haan, sirf naam nahi tha – par us waqt laga jaise meri pehchaan nahi thi.

Sab kuch thoda thoda sankar gaya – doston ki unsaid sympathy, dusron ka taana, aur apne andar ka woh awaaz jo keh raha tha:
"Shayad tu sirf likhta acha lagta hai, likhne layak nahi."

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🌧 Us Raat Ki Khamoshi

Woh raat alag thi. Duniya so rahi thi, par mere andar kuch jag raha tha. Diary kholi. Kalam uthaya. Aur bina soche, likhta gaya.

"Main haar gaya hoon, haan. Par sirf ek competition mein. Main toh likhta hoon… jeene ke liye."

Us raat maine apne har lafz mein ek dard chhupa diya. Par dard ke beech kuch aur bhi tha — ek aag.

Woh aag kisi se badla lene ki nahi thi,
woh aag khud se milne ki thi.

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🌱 Sabse Bada Sabak

Waqt ke saath samjha — har haar kuch keh kar jaati hai.

• Har baar jeetna zaroori nahi hota, kabhi kabhi haar bhi ek teacher hoti hai.

• Logo ke claps se pehle, khud ka acceptance chahiye hota hai.

• Agar jazba zinda hai, to platform chhota ho ya bada, aawaz pahuchti zaroor hai.

Us ek haar ne mujhe likhne se roka nahi, aur aaj — log kehte hain, “Tere alfaaz alag hote hain.”
Par unhe kya pata, ye alfaaz usi haar ki god mein paida hue hain.

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✨ Aaj Ka Main

Main ab bhi jeeta nahi hoon. Par har din jeene ki koshish karta hoon. Har roz kuch likhta hoon — kabhi dil ke liye, kabhi dard ke liye, aur kabhi un logon ke liye jo haar ke baad likhna bhool gaye.

Agar aap bhi kabhi kisi chhoti si haar se guzre ho, to yaad rakhna — woh anjaam nahi, shuruaat ho sakti hai.

“Zindagi har baar jeetne waalon ki kahaani nahi hoti,
Kabhi-kabhi haarne waale bhi misaal ban jaate hain.”